BlueprintBrief - BYC : Grow through Conversation #1

Before constantly thinking about women and trying to get in contact with them and date them, you should be a well-groomed, structured man. A lot of guys start dating at the age of 14 or 15, and from that point on, everything they try to do on social media or in clubs or pubs is to get female attention. We argue that living this kind of lifestyle will not pay off in the end. Your main focus should be advancing your skill set and obtaining knowledge. There are really young guys out here who would rather pay some dude to tell them how to text women on Instagram than invest in themselves. For example, getting a gym membership, buying books, or setting money aside to invest or start building an online brand. Doesn’t that sound crazy to you? Take all that energy that you would put into dating and invest it in yourself, and you will be surprised by what will follow because women will come!

Let’s give you a good example. Let’s say you’re investing all your energy into yourself and building a business. What skills do you need to acquire to have a successful business? You will definitely need conversation skills since you want to acquire clients, which means being charismatic, smart, funny, and well-spoken. You will have to hold meetings, which will ultimately result in you becoming more confidents. Plus, you’ll never be scared to take control of a situation and take responsibility. Now, if you haven’t noticed already, all these attributes are crucial for having a successful dating life. But the benefit of acquiring those skills through investing in yourself is that you will be living an exceptional life compared to others.

See you on Wednesday,
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